Jack's Sweet Life - Cheers!

Today was bittersweet, we went to the celebration of Jack's sweet life. It was just Rich and I today, Alicyn made the decision not to go. I was ok with that decsion, cause it was hers. Today was meant to be a celebration, not a funeral. I had knots in my stomach most of the day in anticipation, I knew how hard it would be for all of us. And it was hard. Kristen and Dan are phenomenal parents, they have really inspired me. There were TONS of pictures of Jack (& Kate), balloons, music, and the guests were dressed especially colorful in his honor. One set of grandparents even wore ELMO t-shirts. They had cupcakes and cookies and whole milk, all of which were Jack's favorite things. People spoke about their silly memories of this exceptional child. He was bright, fun, happy, full of energy and could light up any room. We laughed, we cried, but we made it through. I am not sure I would have as much strength and courage as Kristen and Dan had today. After the service, they both got up and spoke. Can you believe that they were able to do this? I know they are hurting inside but today, they did a great job of holding it together. They loved that little man like no other. It was so evident, not that we doubted it, but man it was really touching. And through it all, they thanked each other, for each other. They recognized that without their marriage and each other, there 2 short years with Jack would not have been possible. This gave me chills, and is again as I type it. They are supporting each other through the worst thing imaginable. When we said our vows, we married for better or for worse. I would say this falls into the worse category allright. I think we can all learn a little something from the Turpin's. I know I will. They asked that each time we are with family/friends/loved ones, that we raise a glass and say "cheers" for Jack. Hold your loved ones a little tighter tonight, be thankful that you have them every single day. Cheers Jack, RIP.